EXPECTATIONS

My dear friends...it's really good when you start a new (online) conversation with somebody you think could be "The One"...
* First, he/she contacts you sending a "Flirt message" or a "Wink".
*Then...short email messages like:
-HI...I like your profile.
-Hello...how was your day?
-I'm really interested in you and would love to get to know you better.
*Next...start exchanging emails for a while.
*Finally...want chat on IM? Then he/she is gonna ask if you have Yahoo or MSN IM,because chatting inside the site it's not so good...too much "traffic"...
***Those steps above can happen in a few minutes or in a couple of hours or take some days.
*Next Step: you start chatting every day with the same person until he/she ask you to remove your pics and profile from the site, because is better when you get focused in one person at at time (I agree...no problem). You two really have a great connection! And for weeks things is doing better and better between you and your new "match"...you both create a relationship. You use to spend hours talking by cell phone,you use to exchange text messages all day long,just to tell how much you miss each other...but suddenly, he/she DISAPPEAR! Yes, that's true, believe me without any reason...PUFF!!
O.K., there's no reason for panic, don't give up dating online because of that. That's happen all the time. Why? After some researches I found that the best explanation is: one of them is chatting with more people at same time until he/she decide to keep one and discard the others! But...interesting is that very often, after a while they'll try to contact you again. Yes, believe me. Some, with so many excuses...others like anything was happened...that's unbelievable but it is true.
So...don't get stressed, be prepared for such kind of situations and have FUN DATING ONLINE until God leads you to the right one, the one He already has separated for you.